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136: Perfectionism, Being Enough, Doing it All - And What the Gospel has to Say! (Lies Moms Believe Series Episode #3) with Rebekah Hargraves
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136: Perfectionism, Being Enough, Doing it All - And What the Gospel has to Say! (Lies Moms Believe Series Episode #3) with Rebekah Hargraves

On today's solo podcast episode, I am continuing the podcast series based on my book, Lies Moms Believe (And How the Gospel Refutes Them) with a chat all about perfectionism, being enough, doing it all - and what the Gospel has to say about all that!

What I Chat about in Today's Episode:

~The next 3 lies covered in my book:

8. I have to be a perfect mom.

9. I have to do it all.

10. I am enough.

~How perfectionism as a goal flies in the face of the gospel

~The reality that the Lord never called us to be perfect moms, but instead called us to point our children to a perfect Savior; how this is done so well and so clearly in our worst of moments

~How our goal of being perfect distorts our children's understanding of the gospel

~The family line of Christ and what it reveals about the Lord working through imperfect people

~The reminder that Christ is still in the redemption business

~Why believing that we have to "do it all" is leading to our having a Savior complex and putting ourselves in the place of God - the only One who is truly omnipotent and omnipresent

~The enemy's clever ploy to get us to misplace our priorities

~The Proverbs 31 woman and the reality that even she didn't "do it all"

~Jesus and His example of not "doing it all"

~The story of Mary and Martha and what their example has to say to busy mamas

~Why I will never tell a fellow mom that she "is enough"

~How "I am enough" deprives us as moms of what can be our true source of supernatural strength

~The reality that "I am enough" is a mantra that flies in the face of the gospel

~The way that Christians believing that they are "enough" ends up telling the watching world that we have nothing special to offer

~Why our realizing that we are not enough on our own can actually be one of the most helpful and thoroughly encouraging things for us to remember

~Christ's strength being made perfect in our weakness

~And more!

For full shownotes, head to www.hargraveshomeandhearth.com/podcast

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Beyond the Boxes
The Gospel-Shaped Life Podcast
The Gospel-Shaped Life Podcast (Formerly the Home and Hearth Podcast) is a weekly show hosted by Rebekah Hargraves and all about edifying, equipping, and encouraging women in their journey of living life in light of the gospel. If there is an issue that pertains to a woman's life, you will find it discussed here! We'll be covering everything from topics pertaining to marriage, motherhood, homemaking, and the Christian walk, to issues of health and fitness, infertility, adoption, chronic illness, and current event issues in the church and culture. It is our prayer that you will find an episode here which speaks directly to what you are going through right at this very moment and that you will receive the encouragement you need for your daily life.